A Message from Father Washabaugh

It would be a whole lot easier to begin as the new Catholic chaplain at Connecticut College if my predecessor had been inarticulate, anti-social, uninterested in the condition of peoples’ souls, and got drunk every other night. Alas! The opposite is the case. Fr. Larry LaPointe has served here for 33 years with wit, intelligence, deep faith and wonderful effectiveness. Now, me!  As Hamlet said, “Hyperion to a satyr”.

Of course, it is grace that saves us. Fortunately, there is a power at work that can use the efforts of the most unlikely individuals, and as a college chaplain, I’m pretty unlikely.

I’ve been a parish priest in eastern Connecticut for 32 years. For the past 25 years, I’ve been involved in ministry to the growing Spanish-speaking population of our region. St. Mary Star of the Sea Church, just down the street in New London, has about 1,000 households, half of which are Spanish-speaking.

I’ve been pastor there for the past 11 years, and I must say, I enjoy it. I particularly love the way a culture not my own pulls me out of my artificially small world. Maybe serving today’s Connecticut College community will do the same thing for me.

Robert Kennedy, S.J., quoted a Japanese educator who said that the purpose of education is to take a young person and pour steel into his/her spine. (Zen Spirit, Christian Spirit, p. 55-56). Although I’m no Buddhist, I like that notion.

Catholic learning doesn’t take place primarily in the head, but lower down. It is learning to live in a certain way and to walk a certain path toward fullness in a world both beautiful and filled with illusion.  I’m very happy to be on that journey with all of you in the Catholic Community at Connecticut College this year.

Fr. Bob Washabaugh 

Holy Week and Beyond

Spring is here and winter is over and gone. It hardly seems there was a winter at all this year by New London standards. Still we are mostly happy to welcome the warmer weather and the beginning of the season of blossoms and green shoots.

There remain a number of events in the Catholic Community's calendar for the semester. I hope you will read through them and work some or all of them into your busy schedule.

On Saturday, March 31 at 5 p.m. in the Harkness Chapel we will observe Palm Sunday and begin Holy Week with Bishop Michael Cote, the local Bishop, as principal celebrant. A reception will follow Mass so you can meet him.

On Wednesday April 4 there will be a Penance Service in the Chapel at 5 p.m.

A Good Friday Service will be held on April 6 at 5 p.m. in the Harkness Chapel.

There will be no Mass on Saturday, April 7 but on Sunday, April 8, at 5 p.m. we will celebrate the Mass of Easter in Harkness Chapel.

Our usual schedule of Vigil Masses on Saturday evenings at 5 p.m. will continue until the weekend of Floralia (May 5-6).

There will be no Vigil Mass on Saturday, May 5. On May 6 at 5 p.m., weather permitting, we will gather for Mass in Buck Lodge in the Arboretum to celebrate our graduating seniors and to round out Floralia weekend. A light supper will follow Mass. Bring your friends.

On Commencement weekend the Saturday night Mass will take place at 5:30 p.m.

Keep up on happenings and schedules for events of the Catholic Community here at the college by visiting our website at www.conncatholics.com.

Whatever you do know that you are always welcome, that you can contact me through the website, by email or at the Chapel x 2452. I’m usually on campus on Wednesdays and Saturdays and would welcome the opportunity to chat with you. I’ll look forward to seeing you perhaps this Saturday or next Sunday or sometime before the semester ends.

Devotedly Yours,

Fr. Larry

Ash Wednesday 2012

Here we go again. Your favorite season is just around the corner. Yes, Lent begins on February 22, Ash Wednesday. One might easily think from all the myth that surrounds the season in the popular mind that it’s all about chocolate, smoking, swearing and liquor (not necessarily in that order). Interesting combination that. Tradition requires that one “give up” one or more of these things to have a productive Lent.

Yes, “giving something up” is the phrase most commonly associated with Lent. While giving up swearing or, say, smoking may improve the environment, yours and the planet’s, giving up chocolate’s just designed to make you suffer.

Now, I don’t want to downplay the redemptive value of suffering but couldn’t we look just briefly at how to have a good Lent while keeping the chocolate? The smoking and the swearing are another thing altogether. Think of all the good intentions you’ve had since the beginning of 2012 that have fallen by the wayside. Pick one, just one, and develop a strategy for realizing it. Practice it. Repeat it. Get good at it.

Lent is a training season, time to brush up on some rusty skill, polish up some talent for sharing, a time for giving, for loving. Really, Lent is about Baptism – a sacrament experienced for many so long ago that it lives now only in photographs and family stories. Baptism is an encounter with the living God. It gives life and welcomes us into the body of Christ. This is so important an event in our spiritual journey that the Church asks us each Easter to renew the promises made for us at our Baptism.

Well, before we launch into the training season on Wednesday the 22^nd of February at 5 p.m. with Mass and the distribution of ashes, let’s have one last fling. We’ll get together this Saturday, the 18^th, to celebrate Mass at 5 p.m. as usual in Harkness Chapel and then go into the Chapel Library for pizzas and partying to celebrate Mardi Gras.

There will be a Mass every Wednesday during Lent at 5 p.m. in the Chapel, in addition to the Vigil Masses on Saturday evenings at 5. Although you will be going on Spring Break soon after the beginning of Lent, the same schedule will continue upon your return.

If you’re confused about the customs and requirements about Lent see last year’s letter at http://goo.gl/Qkacf.

Keep up on happenings and schedules for events of the Catholic Community here at the college by visiting our website at www.conncatholics.com.

Whatever you do, know that you are always welcome, that you can contact me through the website, by email or at the Chapel (ext. 2452). I’m usually on campus on Wednesdays and Saturdays and would welcome the opportunity to chat with you.

God bless you in these spring-like days and all year long,

Fr. Larry

Welcome -- or welcome back --to Connecticut College

"I feel the earth move under my feet; I feel the sky tumbling down..." Carole King's lyric has certainly been the theme song for recent events ... other than your arrival on campus, that is. An earthquake and a tropical storm both announced and impeded your arrival.

The campus has seen significant changes in paving and parking. The Science Center construction is underway and, although I haven't seen them myself, I heard the food lines in Harris have been reorganized. Through all of this the celebration about the college's Centennial continues as a leitmotif.

There are messages in all this, I'm sure. Flexibility, about which we have perhaps heard too much, is really indispensible as a habit and even desirable as a character trait. Change, while it is inevitable, may be both an advantage or a disadvantage ... or even both at the same time. And there is really nothing to get you back on your feet like a good celebration.

The schedule of weekly Masses for the fall semester has been somewhat revised to accommodate the changes wrought by the delayed opening of the college. This weekend there will be no Mass on Saturday evening (September 3rd) at 5 but there will be a Mass on Sunday morning, September 4th, at 10:30 a.m. in the Harkness Chapel. I hope you will plan to attend and meet new friends and renew old friendships. I've got a great story I can't wait to tell you about two students who met at this Mass in their first year at Conn.

Beginning next Saturday, September 10th, Mass will return to its usual time 5 p.m. every Saturday during the fall semester.

Despite meteorological appearances to the contrary, it was a "fair wind" that brought you to a great place to learn and seek. Please make the Catholic Community here at Conn a resource in that enterprise. Come and invite your friends to join you for the Vigil Masses on Saturdays at 5 and for community suppers. (The first is Saturday the 17th in the Hood Dining Room in Blaustein after Mass.) Join the choir. Become a Eucharistic Minister or Lector. Catch up on the sacraments by preparing for First Communion or Confirmation. Stop by to visit me for a chat at the chapel or invite me to dinner chez Harris. It won't cost you anything but the time. Visit our website, www.conncatholics.com, for the latest on the Catholic Community's activities and events.

I look forward to getting to know you better. I hope to offer you an opportunity to get to know more about the Church and your faith as a resource to the many important choices you make every week. And I hope this will be a spectacular Centennial semester for us all.

Devotedly Yours in Christ,

Fr. Larry

Palm Sunday, Holy Week and Beyond!

Here we are in the final days of the Spring semester and it really appears that the long Winter is over and gone. There are still a number of events in the Catholic Community's calendar for the semester. Some of them are corrections of the information I gave you in the letter at the beginning of the semester.

On April 16th at 5 pm in the Harkness Chapel we will observe Palm Sunday and begin Holy Week with Bishop Michael Cote, the local Bishop. A reception will follow Mass so you can meet him.

On Wednesdsay April 20th there will be a Penance Service in the Chapel at 5 pm.

A Good Friday Service will be held on April 22 at 5 pm in the Harkness Chapel.

There will be no Mass on Saturday, April 23 but on Sunday, April 24, at 5 pm we will celebrate the Mass of Easter in Harkness Chapel. A reception will follow Mass in the Chapel Library.

Our usual schedule of Vigil Masses on Saturday evenings at 5 pm will continue until the weekend before Commencement.

On May 8th at noon we will gather for Mass in Buck Lodge to celebrate our graduating seniors and to round out Floralia weekend. Brunch will follow Mass. Bring your friends.

On Commencement weekend teh Saturday night Mass will take place at 5:30 pm.

You can always stay in touch at http://www.conncatholics.com/

I hope to see you Saturday or on some of the services of Holy Week or some time in the remaining weeks of the semester.

Devotedly Yours,

Fr. Larry

Mardi Gras & Ash WednesdayA Message From Fr. Larry

Tuesday is Mardi Gras! Bring in the clowns! Fat Tuesday (loose translation) will give way to Ash Wednesday (no translation needed). Lent, a very late Lent, will begin and will help us to prepare for the celebration of Easter and the renewal of our Baptismal Promises.

We are always in need of renewal and Lent is always about Baptism. Our Baptism into the Risen Christ is how it all starts for all Christians. The wild ride of our spiritual life begins in the waters of Baptism. No matter how long ago ours actually was, it is refreshed at Easter with the renewal of Baptismal promises and the sprinkling with Easter water.

Some students always ask about fast and abstaining from meat. These days Lent isn’t the grueling ordeal your grandparents knew. Here’s the short course on a Catholic observance of Lent.

Voluntary acts which take the focus off of ourselves and place it on the needs of others are a good way to enter into the spirit of the season.

Still, Ash Wednesday and Good Friday are days of fast and abstinence from meat. There is a limit of one full meal on these days for all between the ages of 18 and 59 inclusive. I doubt this will induce any of you to long for the age of 60. ‘Though, trust me, it’ll come soon enough. Why do you think they call it “Fast”?

So, after we’re 14 we abstain totally from meat on all the Fridays of Lent. Now you know where Carnivale gets its name. Bye-bye Meat! Until fairly recently that applied to the whole of Lent.

After we receive First Communion, we Catholics are bound by the obligation of receiving Holy Communion at least once a year. This is called the Easter Duty. The prescribed time for fulfilling the Easter duty extends: from the first Sunday of Lent to Trinity Sunday, in the United States. Catholics are also bound to confess serious (mortal) sins at least once a year, but this is not limited to the Lenten /Easter Season.

The rules are pretty minimalistic but they emphasize the most important qualities of our lives: other-centeredness, self-control, repentance for our sins and union with Christ in the Eucharist. If we were told we had to breathe every 3 minutes we would probably go for a more frequent pattern of breathing.

Before we go blithely into Lent, let’s celebrate Mardi Gras with Pizzas from Mr. G’s and a Piñata full of candy in the Chapel library after the 5 pm Mass this Saturday March 5th.

On Wednesday, March 9th, there will be Mass and the distribution of ashes at 5 pm in the Harkness Chapel.

Then we’re off to Spring Break! When you return we will celebrate Mass on the Wednesdays of Lent in addition to the usual Saturday Vigil Masses all at 5 pm.

On April 16th we will observe Palm Sunday and begin Holy Week with Bishop Michael Cote, the local Bishop. A reception will follow Mass so you can meet him.

On Wednesday April 20th there will be a Penance Service in the Chapel at 5 pm.

A Good Friday Service will be held on April 22nd at 3 pm in the Harkness Chapel.

And on Sunday, April 24, at 11 am we will celebrate the Mass of Easter in Harkness Chapel. A breakfast will follow Mass in the Chapel Library.

I’ll remind you again about all the events after Break but I just wanted to give you a “heads up” on all these events for your calendars. You can always stay in touch at http://www.conncatholics.com/

I hope to see you Saturday or on Ash Wednesday.

Devotedly Yours,

Fr. Larry

Anticipate Christmas with Us December 11

Here’s a quick question: what are we celebrating at Christmas?

Jesus’ birth? Peace and love? Family and friendships? Our shared sense of community, both locally and globally? Christmas is all of that, and so much more. It is a celebration of Christ’s arrival.

The “arrival” is less about Jesus’ birth and more about Christ’s presence among us and within us – the Incarnation. That presence gives dimension and meaning to the peace and love, family and friendships, and shared sense of community. It is the source of the hope we celebrate. It is the reason why the symbols of Christmas are light (Christ’s presence brings light to the world) and evergreens (the Incarnation is a perennial reality now, today and forever).

So there is plenty to celebrate. With all the preparations – and the stress of finishing papers and exams – it can be a struggle to keep the meaning of the season in mind. But Christmas will be so much more meaningful if you can. We are here to help. You can get into the Christmas spirit with our annual celebration of Christmas after 5 p.m. mass this Saturday, Dec. 11. Please join us in the Chapel library for a festive reception with good food, good cheer and good fellowship before you rush off to dinner and studies.

December has a whole host of celebrations honoring Mary. In this season of preparing for Christ, it seems natural to turn to her. After all, she awaited Christ’s arrival with greater anticipation than anyone else. For more about Christmas, the Marian celebrations this month and other news about the Catholic Community, visit our website at www.conncatholics.com. You might also find inspiration at Christmas Vespers: A Service of Lessons and Carols, Wednesday, Dec. 15 at 5 p.m. in the Chapel.

This can be a stressful time. If you would like to talk, please stop by my office in the Chapel basement or stop me if you see me in Harris, the library or walking across campus. I’m here Wednesday and Saturday afternoons and evenings; I’m always available after 5 o’clock Mass on Saturday. Our last liturgy of the semester will be Dec. 18. You can also reach me by phone at 860-423-0856 or by e-mail.

You will be in my prayers and in the prayers of the Catholic Community during the next few weeks. I wish you a joyful Christmas and all of God’s blessings for 2011.

Devotedly yours,
Father Larry